*A Tribute To Gabrielle(my female feline) and Many Of The Loss Of Loved Ones: SONG: The Hurt and the Healer by Mercy Me*
*After experiencing much suffering in my life, with my loved ones and now one of my beloved felines, the value of sufferings can gain much more wisdom. Suffering is part of life. How we carry ourselves through it is what matters. And why healing matters in the process of that suffering.(1 Peter 5:7)
*WORTHY OF NOTES:
*Emotional intelligence in alignment with suffering actually enhances the more accuracy on behalf of why those particular trials exhibits profound maturity of any age.*(7)
*Each circumstance is different in that aspect. However, we should consider growing in that particular level of intelligence and not continue in stagnation of mind and heart. In some cases, there are those whom do not wish to improve in these areas. Responsibilities are a must in spiritual, emotional, and intellectual stimulations.*(8)
*The Creator gives every opportune in certain matters and we are to heed in and during those times of trials and sufferings. Calling out to the Lord and seeking Him allows much progress.*(9)-(Real Healing Process)
*THE FASCINATION OF TREES:
*Ever wonder how when you step out in nature that one tree can simply change the course of your reality.(Earth moments indeed)
*Well, in many cases, the value of them is far greater than meets the eye. The glistening of how they can consider in moments of the daylight and sun beaming through the branches, as well as the calm and safety they bring in the night. Every leaf can be a reminder that each day can be and bring a blessing and that seasons are ever changing as time goes by. That is the reality of the fascination of trees.*(18)
*THE FASCINATION OF BOOKS:
*What do we think of when we consider a book? Is it mere enjoyment of a particular search for a escape from reality or expansion of a different knowledge? That is the questions, is it not?
*Well books do hold a heap of knowledge and also gives the passing of time to explore many characters and at times can be a reflection into our own souls. Whether it be factual or fictional.
*Each page, paper and ink, hold also a foundation of profound emotions and thought patterns beyond our reach. Not to mention in grave detail of life experiences and stories that are never ending as time goes by.
*So yes. A book can indeed consider much power behind words and can continuously change courses or perspectives.
*That is in and of itself the fascination of books.*(23)
*WHAT IS IT ABOUT SOCIETY THAT DISAPPOINTS YOU SO MUCH? That is the question.
*Well the fact we live in an illusion most of every breath we possibly take. Even heartbeats can create a false reality at times.
*Or the fact we are doomed either before we are born because of man's poor decisions as it must or we live to tell tales of a few existential crises. These paralyzing moments crippling the very essence of why we have to perceive the will to live.
*A society born is a society of death. Waiting and calling for both as we wait for our own personal fates.
*However, the real disappointment is as simple as can be. And that is excruciating existence. And what we possibly can accomplish in a life filled with both realities and illusions. And pray never an illusion will be a better pursuant in regard of a grander reality.*(24)
*INFJ REALITIES: WILD HEARTS
*WORTHY OF NOTES:
*When you are getting roasted and you hold back that one truth that will destroy a person's will to live.
*The people who consider you weak have yet not noticed the wolf behind your eyes, nor the flames inside your soul.
*Let them think you are weak and do what wolves and fire do best.
*Surprise them when they least expect it.
*TAURUS AND MUSIC:
*Music is the way a Taurus can best explain their feelings and thoughts.(Highly introverted way)
*They are, out of all the signs, most likely to interpret or clarify meaning of themselves to better express or explain their emotions/affections.
*Being the master of their emotions, they know how to translate their feelings and soul into a musical combination that resonates deeper than words.
*Their music tastes is large and vast and they have a sound for every mood and every thought. They will be into a variety of music genres that offers a deep and meaningful experience that can transport the body and mind.(the INFJ way)
*TAURUS AND MOVIES, TV SHOWS, AND THE LIKE OF OBSERVATIONS:
*When you can discern the reality of existences through many different resources on a daily basis.
*Also to consider the general idea of observing every detail of someone's existence through how each of movie and tv shows are to be presented.(And other entertainment involvements)
*The amazement of it all really is looking through different faceted lenses of realities and illusions of fabricated truths unseen. CS-The Silent Rose
*MAY 22, 2024: Wednesday/7:15-7:30pm
*The Little Arachnid Spider That Could by C.A. Shelton/Animal and Nature Therapy
*I was simply going through the motions about my day, even contemplating on the death or passing of Gabrielle and how I miss her so. Even in the midst of my sadness of a moment, stepping outside to experience a moment with a small spider changed my parallel of emotions and gained a sense of calm.
*The spider's web was attached to a couple of ripe leaves and a prepared branch so of course the spider felt safe to create its webbed home and enjoy moments of solitude and every now and again consider its food resources.
*What was astonishing was the fact that I simply touched the spider gently and of course startled it a bit. It stared at me for about thirty seconds and somehow realized it was safe enough to be in my presence. I simply stated, "Hello," and it continued to stare at me for another thirteen seconds. It heard me and then continued to work itself down to its food resource. Then I watched and observed the entire incident. Then the spider looked me again as if I should be proud of what it had done. I simply stated, "It is ok. You did great."
*Even in all this time, my stir of emotions leveled down to a better balance and my main focus was on a simple little creation rather than the chaos around me. Then I let the spider know that it was my time to go in and for it to rest for the night. As well as I to do the same.
*The moral of this is that the simple things in life and actual rest time are necessary for a balance we need to thrive in a world conditioned and programmed to be a fast pace machine of events that only cause unnecessary chemical reactions to the human anatomy.
*MY MOTHER WAS ALWAYS RIGHT By C.A. Shelton
*My mother was like me. Quiet and reserved for the most part growing up.
*And well to this day, her wisdom at times has assisted me along my journey. Navigating through chaos was second nature to her. I thought at times, "How does she do it?"
*Well her secret was when it gets too much, then take a break. Whatever that consists of. Life does not always have to be a constant going. And that is why I personally accomplish things.
*And well time away from the world is a must. Too much can cause insanity.
*So yes. Even in the best and worst case scenarios, time away has its benefits.
*THE FASCINATION OF THE ANIMAL KINGDOM AND ITS ECOSYSTEMS, INCLUDING THE HUMAN EXISTENCE:
*Since I was a child and at times still, I have always enjoyed observing animals of all kinds within their habitats. Especially birds of any kind. It's fascinating how they manage to create their own realities. However, in some cases, animals can be that reflection of the human soul.*
*The reality of these things came to be when I was introduced to books on animals in my younger years. Every detail simply carried its weight in folds within the creating parts of beings. And that is why I love to have a complete relationship with the Creator in that aspect.
*Every part of the created being, including angelic in that aspect, far compasses much understanding in the world around us. Most do not realize the essence of mystery on how things are created and how they work themselves out other than the source of all things and that is simply knowledge beyond science and biology.*
*Everything folds and manifests in its timing. Always.*/The Book of Ecclesiastes
*BOOKS AND THE FASCINATIONS OF MODERN AND ANCIENT TRUTHS:
*Lights Out By Ted Koppel
*After On By Rob Reid
*Permanent Record By Edward Snowden/Chapters 12 and 17*
*JULY 9, 2024-Tuesday
*Question. How many "percentages" does it take to gain momentum in life? Not what you think and definitely not from man.
*When we think of percentages, we automatically assume or consider mathematics or financial accountings, or the sum of all things in general. However, when it comes to God and how creation operates and His timing in certain matters, it becomes a different type of percentage on the human soul and the circumstances at hand. And the lifespan of that created being, whether it be human or angelic.
*The percentage given is the moment you acknowledge His existence and what amount of that percentage you continue to carry throughout the course of your spiritual journey. That is why it is vital to always consider having the Lord the highest priority in your life and many years to come.
*The Book of Revelation is the perfect timeline on behalf of the Creator and creation. It is also the perfect example of pivotal moments in history, the past, present, and the future in progress. And the outcomes of them and every human soul on a habited planet we consider Earth itself shall we.
*EXERCISES FROM JOHN GARDNER'S, THE ART OF FICTION: Writing Material Techniques-(Writer's Group Sessions)
*EXERCISE #3: Describe a landscape as seen by a bird. Do not mention the bird.(Emphasis mine)
*The washing of meadows and valleys. The moment they hold upon my sight of understanding their existence in place. The colors of vibrant and strong emotion they bare within my place in the world. They are here for my pleasure and resting companion. I feel safe knowing they can always consider where to go when having a landing spot and to nurture my resources continuously. To know and realize the vitality of what may come with these colors and long distance of a wanting security lies within the open spaces they give to me each day that I possibly exist. Let these wash away my worries and concerns in future terms. Let them take away also my vital parts of existence if need be when the time comes.
*EXERCISE #4: Describe a building as seen by a man whose son has just been killed in a war. Do not mention the son, war, death, or the old man doing the seeing. Then describe the same building, in the same weather, and at the same time of day, as seen by a happy lover. Do not mention love or the loved one.(Emphasis mine)
*The Building: Walls of simply decay now rests on the ground where it lay and once stood its rightful place to consider. No more safety lies within this and now to know that there is no stability of mind.
*The Building and Lover: The matching raindrops considers upon my face of resistance. The course of heart racing as it stills within my soul of contemplating bliss. As if the day has turned to night in these times of trialing purposes. Consider the signs of the moment in time and quality of memories.
*AUGUST 18, 2024-Sunday
*FOR THOSE SEVERELY DEPRAVED OF MIND:
*The Boogeyman and woman know of the Lord. That's why those who are coherent of His Word have not so balanced of minds. The human race and their "sirens." Are we awake or asleep? I wonder. The truly discerning knows. Time to calculate your souls or the Boogeyman will get you like a thief in the night. Sigma Female With A Preparation Of Noisy Mindsets.
*His judgments far compass any horror of what man establishes with his own vain imaginations. A strong delusion resides in the minds of the most depraved. Sincerely, The Quiet Rose
*NOVEMBER 4, 2024-Monday-(THE REALITY OF A REAL SOULMATE, whatever that connection is or will become)
*When I think about you is the time and space of either rational or irrational thoughts proceeding within the subconscious mind of staring at the ceiling at night. To decipher reality from the illusion of what real or fake love is rather than simple impulsive infatuations. However, to know the Lord's right timing and having a clear conscience of a real and authentic connection is better known when I lay my head down on my pillow at night and even your name is written on the corners of my heart in many ways than one. WHEN A REAL SIGMA FEMALE FALLS IN LOVE FILES
*January 2, 2025: Thursday
*THE BERMUDA TRIANGLE OF FINANCIAL SCARCITY: EMPHASIS MINE ON TOPIC TITLE; DEFICIT FINANCING
*A Dialectical Approach: A Scientific and Psychological Focus On Adopting A "Banking Conception" Of Education: TAKING SIDES BOOK
*The banking conception of education assumes that students are essentially "banks" in which scientific facts are "deposited." Because psychology is considered a science in that aspect, there are presumably many scientific psychological facts, derived from experiments, that need to be deposited in students' minds.(1) The banking conception makes teachers and textbooks fact distributors or information transmitters. Lectures are monologues through which the facts of experiments or the findings of method are distributed and transmitted into the mental "banks" of students. At test time, then, teachers make information "withdrawals" to discern how well the students have maintained the deposits of educational currency referred to as knowledge.(2)
*Since the time of the Greek philosopher Socrates (470-399 B.C.), the banking conception of education has not been considered effective for learning about unresolved conceptual issues. One reason for this is that nestled within the banking conception lies the assumption that knowledge is above reasonable criticism and that the facts of a scholarly discipline are approximations of truth-distilled and ready for distribution to students. This is the notion of education that considers knowledge to be strictly objective. Students are thought to acquire a clear and objective picture of reality-the way things really are. As we have observed, however, it is questionable whether teachers of the "soft" sciences have access to clear and objective facts only. In many cases, the "facts" are not so clear and objective but rather puzzling and debatable. Indeed, interpretations of data are always debatable, in principle.
*An alternative to the banking tradition of education is the dialectical tradition of education. In this tradition, there can be no meaning (and thus no knowledge) without opposition. For example, there is no way to understand what "beauty" or "upness" means without implicitly understanding what "ugliness" or "downness" is, respectively.(3) To judge the beauty of a work of art, one must have some notion of the contrast to beauty. In other words, opposing notions only make sense when considered at the same time, one complementing the other and together forming a complete concept. In this Greek conception, of the dialectic, there is no quick and easy answers to difficult questions, and there are few incontestable facts to present. Instead, there are at least two sides to every issue.
*Socrates taught his students that we may begin in error or falsity, but we will eventually arrive at truth if we continue our dialectical conversation.(4) This is because truth, for Socrates, involves uncovering what is already there.(5) Because all conceptions-true or false- supposedly have their dialectical complements implicit within them, truth itself already implicit and waiting to be revealed.(6) Truth, then, according to Socrates, is uncovered by a rational analysis of the relevant(and perhaps even false) ideas and arguments already under discussion.(7)*
*The discipline of psychology is often considered to be dialectical, at least in part. Any student who has studied the many different theories of human behavior (e.g., humanism, behaviorism, psychoanalysis) can attest to this. Psychology frequently consists of two or more voices on the same psychological issue. Consequently, many of the ideas of psychology develop through conversation that takes place among psychologists or among the students of psychology. Although this is understandable when we consider the complexity of the psychology's subject matter, it can create issues for the banking approach to education. What can be deposited in a mental bank when two or more voices are possible and the conversation among the voices is ongoing? Some information distribution is certainly important.(vital) However, information distribution alone cannot capture this type of knowledge in the discipline, because that knowledge is dialectical in nature.(8)*
*January 12, 2025: Sunday-(Summary takes from 2016)
*What is Death?
*There is more to life than dwelling on death. It's part of the human life. That's why it is called a life. A human will realize this one way or the other. But the Word of God states our life is like a vapour. It exists and then it is gone. However, what individuals are missing is during that vapour, what have you chosen, life or death? Personally, I choose life. And that is why it is vital that all mankind needs to make a choice. It is eternal life with Christ(Or Yeshua) or death consumed. That is the reality of things. This is what individuals are not understanding.
*Any lost person has the mindset of how they are going to enjoy the life they are given to the fullest. Just wide open. Would you not want to keep living? Why die? Especially when you are given the chance to live.(John 14:6)
*I always thought that the Tribulation would be a time of when individuals would begin to really start examining themselves and do better to improve themselves. But God has shown me that every day is a tribulation. Why wait for a great event to happen. Why not do it now.
*January 12, 2025: Sunday-(Summary takes from 2016)
*Accountability: Finalizing Choices In Life
*You know the greatest attribute that a human can have is strength. It is strength alone that can endure any obstacle in life. It is strength alone that assists a person to be obedient to God. I tell you I have grown so much in the past three years that it has amazed even me. And being strong is the only choice or decision I have in this life. That is why I do not show any emotions hardly. Is it because I am heartless? Is it because I do not love? God forbid. I have learned that the most terrifying and gripping moments in my life I have had to make a choice. Either be strong, suck it up, or be weak and a coward. That is why I am fearless because I have been afraid. I do not fear man whatsoever. I have had to all my life question who I was and why I am here. And God finally revealed it to me three years ago.(2013) I was born to protect God and His people including myself, however that would become of circumstances. Talk about real reality. And it is God alone that has showed me this throughout all I have endured in life. Accountability will be and always take part in finalizations on human decisions.(Truth Quotes are a must on this reality)
*MISCELLANEOUS: FROM A TRUE INFJ PERSPECTIVE By C.A. SHELTON***
*Fourteen Habits of People Who Are Masters At Reading People:
*They Are Observant***
*They Actively Listen***
*They Read Body Language**
*They Are Empathic To Certain Degrees**
*They Pay Attention To Tone and Details**
*They Make Eye Contact***
*They Are Patient***
*They Take Note On Patterns With Individuals***
*They Use Their Intuition***
*They Pay Attention To The Context**
*They Do Not Judge-(To That Extent)**
*They Are Objective*
*They Have Emotional Intelligence**
*They Practice Or Insert High Levels Of Both Intellectual and Meditative Stimulations***
*ELEVEN WAYS A TRUE INFJ With High Emotional Intelligence Deal With Toxic People:
*(1)They Do Not Talk(Converse) About Toxic Topics: They converse about what needs to be conversed about; some conversations are not worth discussing.
*(2)They Do Not Waste Their Energy: Toxic individuals are not good for anyone and are conscious of the energy that they are spending on these types of individuals.
*(3)They Use Compassion and Kindness: Use this as a weapon against toxic individuals; If nothing more considers the outcome, then no longer have any association with certain ones.
*(4)They Know The Limits:* Are aware that there are boundaries that should be established when dealing with toxic individuals.
*(5)They Have Faith In Their Intuition:*(Follow your gut or spiritual compass)
*(6)They Know Their Emotions: Highly aware of their emotions and try to stay away from the emotions of the toxic individuals.
*(7)They Do Not React Very Quickly: They do not react as easily as toxic individuals want them to react.
*(8)They Dislike Drama: What the fabricated drama can do to them and their emotional well-being.
*(9)They Forgive But Do Not Forget: Never ever forget how the toxic individuals made them feel; learn from a specific issue.
*(10)They Can Change The Mood With Their Intellect: The energy is so powerful that they can change anything that is negative to positive.(vice versa if continued nonsense)***
*(11)They Do Not Seek Approval: Emotionally intelligent individuals are highly secure in themselves and thus they do not need validation or approval from anyone other than their own selves. They are sure of their beliefs and they know their self-worth and no one else can deprive them of both of these.
*(12)A Bonus: They Use Certain Ways Of Technology In Order To Deal With Toxic Individuals: At times, technology can be of a source in ways to let a group of toxicity of individuals realize that they are in low emotional intelligence.***
*FOUR WAYS A TRUE INFJ Female Can Spot Psychological Manipulations In Others:
*(1)They Will Use Your Words Against You: Manipulators plays on your good intentions, insecurities, vulnerabilities, and weaknesses in order to get what they want. They will do something to hurt you and when you address the matter, they will turn the situation around, making you feel guilty and end up apologizing.
*(2)They Are Wolves In Sheep's Clothing: Emotionally manipulative individuals are always willing to assist, but it always comes with a price. There is no genuine assistance. And they will always remind you of that one time they assisted you and use it as a way to manipulate you into feeling like you owe them something.
*(3)They Completely Lack Accountability: Emotional manipulators lie and twist facts as it suits them to get out of tight spots. Even having those they know enabling the behaviour and actually becoming accomplices overtime.
*(4)They Are Guilt-Mongers: Emotional manipulators will never admit a mistake if it puts them at a disadvantage. Instead, they are always on the lookout for someone to blame. Always good at playing the victim and using that as a guilt-trip. Are masters of it and will make you feel guilty about virtually anything that you do, whether good or bad, if it does not favour them.
*(5)A Bonus: They Can Use Technology As A Weapon For Control: Emotional manipulators-(Especially covert narcissists, sociopaths, and psychopathic individuals) use this as a tool to gain momentum with coercive procedures, when in reality, insecurities are presented in the loudest forms. Highly unbecoming to say the least and these types of individuals need to seek therapy.
*JANUARY 22, 2025-Wednesday
*Subtle Observations Upon Housing Leases, Contracts and Newsletters: Any Particular Housing In General/A Summary Of Results
*THE CALCULUS WAY: Mathematical Observations In Sentences and Psychological Analysis On Others/A COMPLETE INTRODUCTION
*Spotlight-Remembering The Formulae: Pg. 127, Extension Numbers, and/or Financial Documentations and Signatures
*In mathematics, there are some formulae that you can look up in a book and there are others that you really need to learn and remember because they crop up so often. It is very much up to you which formulae you think are worth remembering as it depends on how often you need them. However, here is a suggestion.*
*In Section 8.6, you are provided with a table summarizing the derivatives of the six trigonometric functions. Learn them and remember them all!
*In Section 8.14, you are provided with a table summarizing the derivatives of the six inverse trigonometric functions. My advice here is to learn and remember the first three of these.
*FEBRUARY 24, 2025-Monday:
*THE LOGIC BEHIND WORK ETHICS:(Working Hard For A Living) By Crystal Shelton
*The logic behind work ethics has nothing to do with the ideology or societal word term "success."
*Upon observations for years now, including my own experiences, it is something to consider in future matters.
*WHAT IS SUCCESS? WHAT IS ITS PURPOSE?
*Realistic success is based upon someone's character rather than the recognition of the work they have put in all their life. It is good of course to work hard for a living. That is part of life. However, your character and what you truly stand for is far more presentable than passing away with entitlements and the amount of finances involved. It is your character that will be remembered. Not materialistic possessions and/or the recognition because of your work ethic.
*THE HUMAN HEART:(A State of Humility and Authentic Pursuant)
*Both your emotional and physical health is to be considered with any job you have or been blessed with in this life. Whether you are very successful in life or have temporary jobs for the rest of your life, it all eventually consists of a state of humility. As long as you are proactive, productive, and never give up, that is all that matters. That being stated, it is good to always be thankful and grateful that the Lord places you anywhere you are called.*
*ON OTHER MATTERS:(In Relation To Work Ethics: Psychology)
*HAVING AND EARNING REALISTIC RESPECT:(Knowing The Difference)
*When the time considers itself for individuals to be placed in your life for a reason and at times for a season, respect is to be greatly considered. Other words, the perspective on respect is in the sense of working hard for a living. When you seek for a job and apply for it, you have it.(in most cases) However, after that applying, it is up to you or other parties involved to be willing to earn that work ethic. That being stated, work ethics and relationships can establish one another in this way.
*OVERALL CONCLUSION:
*Work ethics should always consider a place of humility. We have to be mindful of our existences in this world as well as holding an example, not only for others and ourselves to that extent, but also the younger generation. When it considers relationships, overtime there should be a willingness to eventually earn each other's love, respect, and trust. Either way in both predicaments, it all consists of work.
*MAY 1, 2025-Thursday: ADVICE FROM NATURE AND ALL THINGS EXISTING
*ADVICE FROM A BUTTERFLY:
*Let your true colors show
Take yourself lightly
Look for the sweetness in life
Take time to smell the flowers
Catch a breeze
Treat yourself like a Monarch!
*ADVICE FROM A GARDEN:
*Cultivate lasting friendships
Sow seeds of kindness
Listen to sage advice
Don't let the little things bug you
Take thyme for yourself!
*ADVICE FROM A LADYBUG:
*Spot new opportunities
Spend time in your version of a garden
Be well-rounded
Enjoy the wonders of nature
Don't let the small things bug you
Keep family close by
Be simply beautiful!
*ADVICE FROM A HONEYBEE:
*Create a buzz
Sip life's sweet moments
Mind your own beeswax
Work together
Always find your way home
Stick close to your honey
Bee yourself!
*May 6, 2025-Tuesday:
*THROUGH THE EYES OF THE INFJ and ANIMAL CONNECTIONS:
*(Note: To consider this analysis on psychological levels and the quantity of individuals involved)
*Ever wonder why an animal considers being in their actual and natural habitats? Well the honest truth is they perceive environments more accurately than what most would miss in certain details in that particular environment or region they are located in. It is the same perspective with an INFJ individual.
*Animals of all kinds and species, even down to insects, can sense far greater the dimensional intuition of unexplained in that aspect truth within human souls and other created beings. Other words, they also observe their own kinds as well within the environment.
*So if a human is unbalanced and the environment, then most likely that animal or animals(depends on how many are a quantity) sense it and match the energy of the human connection or connections within the environment or household.
*For example(or examples), if the person has a calming aura, then animals will be more drawn to them because of the balance in their life. You can also consider innocence as well.
*Another example is chaos. If the person has a chaotic life and aura, including possible influences, then animals will sense that connection and unfortunately be unbalanced as well. It is actually quite harmful to the animal in general.
*And the final example is discerning good and evil. Both animals and actual INFJs can detect goodness in others and evil intentions. That is why an INFJ can be intimidating to society and those around them.
*So in all conclusion, listen to these connections if you are blessed to have them. And more vital matters, the Creator allows certain INFJs or animal connections to assist to better the environment and society in general.